Planning a surprise proposal or a special jewelry gift? One of the biggest challenges can be figuring out your partner’s ring size without them suspecting a thing. However, it's important to remember that ring sizing is not an exact science—various factors, including temperature and time of day, can affect finger size. The most accurate way to determine their size is by having them visit Baraka Gems, where we use professional ring sizing tools to ensure a perfect fit.

At Baraka Gems, we specialize in helping customers find the right size for their dream ring. If you're unsure about sizing, our expert jewelers are happy to assist and guide you through the process!

1. Borrow a Ring They Already Wear

If your partner wears a ring on their ring finger, borrow it for a short period and take it to Baraka Gems for sizing. Make sure it’s a ring they wear on the correct finger and hand, as sizes can vary between hands.

2. Use a Ring Sizer Tool

If you can’t take the ring to a jeweler, use a ring sizing tool or printable guide. Place the ring over the guide to find the closest match. Alternatively, press the ring into a bar of soap to create an impression and bring that to Baraka Gems for measurement. Keep in mind, these methods provide an estimate, not a guaranteed size.

3. Trace the Ring

Place the ring on a piece of paper and trace the inside and outside edges. Do this multiple times to get an accurate measurement, then compare it to a ring size chart or bring it to us for expert guidance.

4. Enlist Help from Friends or Family

A close friend or family member might already know your partner’s ring size. If not, they can casually bring it up in conversation or take them ring shopping under another pretense—perhaps even stopping by Baraka Gems to browse! Another great idea is having a friend suggest a fun outing to a jewelry store to try on rings "just for fun" and subtly take note of their size.

5. Casually Start the Conversation

If discussing jewelry comes up naturally, you can casually bring up ring sizes or pretend you’re buying a ring for someone else to get them to reveal their size. Better yet, visit Baraka Gems together and let them try on a few pieces casually.

6. Compare Fingers

If you and your partner have similar finger sizes, you can try on one of their rings to estimate. If it fits a specific finger on your hand, our experts at Baraka Gems can help adjust accordingly.

7. Measure Their Finger While They Sleep

If your partner is a deep sleeper, you can gently wrap a piece of string or paper around their engagement ring finger and mark the measurement. Just be careful not to wake them up! Bring your measurement to Baraka Gems, and we'll help estimate the size as closely as possible.

8. Buy a Slightly Larger Size

If you’re unsure, opt for a slightly larger size. It’s generally easier to resize a ring down than to make it bigger. While none of these methods can guarantee the perfect fit, our expert team at Baraka Gems will work with you to get as close as possible and provide resizing services after the proposal if needed.

9. Be Mindful of Contemporary Metals

If your partner wants a ring made of contemporary metals like tungsten or titanium, keep in mind that these materials cannot be resized. Because we’re estimating the size through indirect methods, there's no way to ensure a perfect fit upfront with these metals. It's critical to understand this limitation and talk with our jewelers at Baraka Gems to determine the best approach based on your design and material preferences.

Finding the right ring size without your partner knowing takes a little creativity, but it’s worth the effort for a memorable surprise. Remember, the most accurate way to determine ring size is by having them visit Baraka Gems for a professional measurement. Any other method is an estimate—but with our expert guidance and post-proposal services, we’re here to help you every step of the way.

At Baraka Gems, we’re here to make your proposal or gift-giving experience stress-free and joyful. Stop by our store or contact us for friendly advice on finding the ideal ring!